Finding your ideal partner, embracing divine love, and having a conscious relationship doesn’t have to be something you chase but never believe you’ll achieve. By healing your past trauma, rewriting your stories, and manifesting the partner you deserve, that divine love is within your grasp. Jess Hendrick joins me today to talk about why we’re attracted to certain people and how we can break these unhealthy patterns.

About Jess Hendrick

Jess is professionally trained as a Conscious Relationship Coach and Occupational Therapist (with a focus on mental health). Her speciality is guiding her clients to release unhealthy patterns: dating the same person in a different body, recreating the same toxic dynamics, triggers & reactions, and attraction to unavailable people so they can FINALLY experience fulfilment and connection in their relationships. Jess works with anyone who is struggling in all types of relationships, including your relationship with YOURSELF, relationship with friends/family/coworkers/bosses etc.

Jess’ life has been her case study and she has really been through it ALL when it comes to relationships. By working on herself she was able to change the course of her life and now she guides her clients to do the same. Jess intuitively guides her clients to uncover beliefs in the subconscious mind that are creating discord in their relationships. Working with Jess will give you the gift of awareness of your patterns so you can reclaim your power and finally shift your relationship dynamics by going within and shifting the way you show up. This is how we alchemize and heal our relationships from the inside out!

About Conscious Relationships & Divine Love

This conversation with Jess Hendrick really hits home for me. I see myself so much in all of the scenarios we talk about. So what do divine love and conscious relationships really look like?

Jess explains why we’re drawn to certain people. Do you find yourself getting into relationships where it seems like it’s the exact same person you just broke up with, but looks different? We’re often attracted to someone who triggers a trauma response in us.

There are two types of attraction: healthy and unhealthy. When we’re falling into repeated patterns of dating the same type of person, we’re definitely feeling an unhealthy attraction. Jess talks about how we can start embracing healthier attraction.

We start by rewriting the stories we’ve grown up telling ourselves. Jess walks us through a method that, while not necessarily easy, will allow us to experience a different and healthier type of love.

Did you know that it’s possible to manifest your ideal partner? When you’re clear on what qualities you’re looking for in a partner and, just as important, what you’re not looking for and will not tolerate, the universe will provide for you. You start by boosting your energetic vibration.

Finally, we talk about divine timing. We’ve all seemingly lost the faith in letting the universe provide for us and have turned to technology and dating apps to try to beat the timing set out for us already. Have faith and do the hard work within yourself, lovelies – your ideal, divine love is out there.

What qualities does your ideal partner have? Let me know in the comments, lovely!

In This Episode

Why we’re drawn to certain people over others [6:30]
What healthy and unhealthy attraction look like [7:00]
How to rewrite your stories so you can experience a different love [11:30]
How to manifest your ideal partner [14:00] [23:30]
Why we need to boost our energetic vibration [30:00]
What happens when you have faith in divine timing [32:30]
What the problem with dating apps is [38:00]

Quotes

“We seek the dynamics that feel like home because home is what we associate with safe.” [6:23]

“For me, it’s about recognising that the partner is a mirror of whatever is going on within our own mind and belief system. It’s an opportunity to move through, transcend, and heal anything we have left to heal from our past experiences.” [10:00]

“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship in your life. I would encourage you to treat yourself like the most important person that you love more than anything. Just treat yourself in the way you would like your partner to treat you. Just practice that. Get into that energy because it’s going to open up the channels for someone to come through who matches that vibration.” [47:36]